You Can Just Sit There Blaming Yourself or You can Move on, Dream and Stay Positive Cause Past maybe Over But Future Still Holds Possibilities. But Being Positive is Not Easy What’s Easy is To Say Be Positive But When the Situation Get Tensed Some Guys Run But Some Stay
So, What are You Gonna Do? What You Will Do Will Describe and Make You
Here’s an article on How to Stay Positive Even in Negative Situation
Why Positivity is Necessary?
It’s Very Easy to Have Negative Mindset about anything and Be Depressed about it But it’s Tough to Stay Positive. Some People are Born with Positive Mindset While Some Have to actively work on it
I consider myself among those Smart and Active People Who Kinda Need to Actively Work on Positivity
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You May Not Accept it But While Writing this Article only One Though Prevail My Mind which is “No One is Gonna Read My useless Blog Why not Stop working on it”
I Understand that it’s Not Negativity it’s deep Down Feeling about the Things that You are Sure About
But No one Understand that every time in our We Tried to Cope with Negativity only Negative Happened
It’s Easy to Say that Be Positive But Tough to Really approach things with Positivity
But At Some Point in My Life, I Discovered one Thing that Being Positive about the thing is all About Having Confidence in Yourself and Your Decision
Without Positivity You Will Have Zero Confidence in Your Decision and Yourself. That’s What I Personally Discovered
Positivity is Like a Blade You Need to Sharpen For Yourself So that You Can Deal with the Problems in Your Life and Deal with Them Without Anyone’s Help
Is it Really Possible to Stay Positive in Every Situation?
At the Beginning of 2018 My Dog Died and Everyone around Me Was Like Be Positive
I Can Stay Positive But about What Exactly, I am Sad Cause I am Supposed to Be Sad. My 4 Year Dog Just Died. There is Nothing Positive about it
At that Day I Discovered one Thing, You can’t Really Stay Positive in Every Situation
In Some Situations, You Have to Be More Acceptable and Understanding and that’s How You are Staying Positive
You May Not Be Positive about Everything But You Surely Can Be Positive about the Future and Trust That Future Holds Possibilities of Happiness
Being Positive is all About Knowing that Then Future Holds Promises
What’s The Difference Between Being Positive and Being Opportunistic?
There is a Lot of Difference Between Being Positive and Being Opportunistic
An Opportunistic Person May or May Not Be Positive in the Same Way A Positive Person May or May Not Be Opportunistic
Being Positive is about Knowing that No Matter What Happens in the Present there is Still Hope in the Future cause Future is Filled with Possibilities
Being Opportunistic is about Knowing that No Matter What Happens Today, I am Going to Make the Best out of it Cause Today is Bad But Tomorrow May Be Worse
That’s all the Difference Between Being Positive and Being Opportunistic
In Order to Deal with Every Situation Effectively, You Can’t Just Be Positive or Be Opportunistic. You Have to Be Positive and Opportunistic
This is How I Changed My Mindset
No Matter What Happens in the Present, Future Still Hold Possibilities and Today Maybe Bad But If I Make the Best out of the Worse than I Would Make Great out of Best in the Future
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From Know On Promise Me That You Will Adopt the Same Philosophy in Your Life
You Have to Be out there Making the Best out of Worse and the Confidence You Will Develop in Yourself will Be Make You a Better Person
How Do I Stay Stay Positive?
Basically, When I Face Tough Situation and I Feel Like Quitting or Negative Thoughts Fill My Mind I Do These 9 Things in Order to Keep Myself Calm and Positive
Moreover, I Have Group of 3-4 Friends, We Meet Every Month on 27. What We Do on that Day Discuss our Past Action For that Month and Understand What We Did Wrong
Cause Sometimes Being Positive is Not Enough, Sometimes You Need Proper Guidance and Who Could Give You Proper Guidance than Your Age-old Buddies Who Know You Very Well
Following these 6 Steps Along with Proper Guidance is Enough For Me to Get Back on Track
Breath in Some Air
Breathing is The Simple and Most Effective Thing You Can Do Right Know or anytime When You Feel Stressed out and When Negative Thoughts Fill Your Mind
When We Encounter a Tough Situation our Natural Reaction to the Situation is Resistance and that Resistance Results in Stress and That Stress Builds up Negativity
What You Need to Do is You Need to Relax and Don’t Let Your Natural Instincts Jump In on You
Breathing and Calming Yourself Down is the Best Way to Deal with any Problem
So, When You Face a Problem Just Breath in and out Till You Feel Relaxed or Maybe Just Do Wim Hof Method
Write it Down
This is For All those People Who Literally think That They are Not Positive. What You Need to Do is Write Down the Situation that You are So Negative about
Then Write The Possible outcomes of the Situation and Then Proceed on to Writing How These Outcomes Will Effect You
At the end With Best of Your Abilities Write all The Possible Solutions and Don’t Ask anyone to Help You in Finding Solution But Use Internet If Necessary
Plus Write all the Possible Positive things that can Happen
Example of How You Should Write it Down
- Problem: I am Gone Quit the College
- Outcomes: No Job, No Money, No Home.
- After Effect: I Will Have Nothing to Eat, Wear and Nowhere To call Home
- Solution: I Avoid Quitting or Maybe open My own Company
- Positive things: I Can Become a Millionaire
Go Outside
After You Have Realistically Evaluated the Situation, It’s Time For Going Outside and Take a Short Walk. In That Short Walk
I Would Like to Recommend You to Focus on Solution and Positive things only
Focusing on the Problem will Only Stress You Out But Focusing on the Solution will Help You Grasp the Situation Positively
Moreover, Pay More Focus to Nature Like You Want Nature to Suggest You with a Direction
I Always Climb a Tree When I am Feeling Stressed out and When I Don’t Know What to Do and Nature always Tell Me One thing
Just Climb Up the Problem With Proper Force and Balance So that You Don’t Fall Down But You Get to See the View
In any Way, I Don’t Recommend Climbing a Tress Without Experts
Understanding the Natural Flow
Now What You Need to Do is Understand that Everything that Happens In Your Life Happens For a Reason. So For the Love of God Stop Judging the Situation as Positive or Negative
Just Flow with The Situation and Be Like Water
Don’t Let Small Problems Disrupt Your Natural Flow
Go with The Flow and When Time is Appropriate, Dominate the Flow
Everything Has a Natural Pace and If You Force Your Way in or Out Most of the Time You Will Face Resistance But What Flows Naturally Doesn’t Face Resistance
Become One With Nature and Keep on Moving When You Get to Move
Being Opportunistic
Now You Know What the Situation Really is and You Know what The Possibilities are. Know is the Time to Hit For the Target
Focus on the Positive Side of the Situation and Take Efforts to Redeem the Positive Half of the Situation. Keep Working and Trying till you Make the Best Happen
Remember If you Work and Do Your Best Then The Worst Won’t Happen
Letting Go
Now You Need to Let Go of Every thought in Your Mind and Move on. There is No Benefit if You Keep Holding on to the Things That are in the Past
Remember that Past Should Not Be Your Concern
Move on Because You Have Other Problems to Deal with. Don’t Just Sit There Thinking About It. The Only Thing that Can Happen Now Thinking about it is You Lose Focus
Don’t Just Sit There Blaming Yourself
Take Action
Luck, Wisdom, Courage It All Begins When You Take Action

Is it Just In the Mind?
How You Perceive Things Depends Totaly Upon You. Nothing is Bad and Nothing is Good. What may Be Bad For You is Good For Someone Else
I Donated $100 to Someone Whom I Don’t Even Know But that $100 Helped Her in Feeding Her Kids
Remember that Whatever Happens in the World Happens For a Reason and If You Start Judging Everything than You Will Lose Valuable time
Time in Which You Could Take Action and Make a Difference
Most of the Times it’s Never Just in the Mind
Negative Situations are Negative Because these Situations are Filled with Possibilities that can Effect Your Life in a Negative Way
But Staying Positive in a Negative Situation is all About Focusing on the Future and Looking at the Better Half of Every Situation
How Staying Positive will Help Me in My Life?
No One Wants to Be Around a Person Who is Negative about Everything
Being Positive and Staying Positive Makes You Instantly Likeable and Much More Appealing to other People. It Also Shows Your Strength as a Person
Positivity Will Help You In Developing Yourself Beyond Your Meger Limits and Let You See the World in a New Light
You Will Start Knowing Your Strength and Weakness as a Person
Understand one Thing Clearly, The World is Not all Sunshine and Rainbows But If You Keep Looking at the World as Its All Filled with Negativity and Hopelessness
Then Hopelessness is What You Will Get Cause You Will Attract What You Seek
Our Mind Has the Capability to Attract anything and Everything
Seeking Negativity Will Only Get You Closer to Negative Results But What if You are Positive About Everything No Matter How dire the Situation was
You Know What Will Happen, You Will Start Looking at the Possibilities and Positivity
Seeking Positivity Will Get You Closer to Positive Results
If You Have Food, Shelter and Clean Water. Then Trust Me, Being Positive is Kinda Easy
There are People out there Who Don’t Have Food But Have Hopes and Dreams
Don’t Waste Your Time Being All Negative Rather Be Positive and Seek Possibilities
Takeaway
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A Word From FitnessGained
Positive Mindset is All about Letting Go of the Past and Focusing on the Future. Past May Be Over But the Present Still Holds Possibilities and Future Holds Hopes
So, Stop Wasting Your Time Being Negative and Start Hoping and Dreaming Cause You Have a Long Life Filled With Excitement waiting For You To Redeem
P.S. If You Have any Doubt about the Article You Can Comment Down Below I Will Be More than Happy to Help You
Best Wishes
R, Peace
Rudra
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